Comfort is fickle

Comfort is fickle

Comfort is a fickle mistress. She can seduce us into thinking that being with her is OK, demanding more& more of our time until we become firmly enmeshed in her clutch. Because she’s easy we may be lulled into the false sense of a meaningful relationshipwhile we...
What’s Stuck & What’s a Soulful Pause?

What’s Stuck & What’s a Soulful Pause?

When we have arrived at the question, the answer is already near. – Ralph Waldo Emerson But what if you don’t know what the question is, Dear One? What to do if you feel like you’re living in a fog, uncertain of your next step? What to do if you’re stuck in a rut,...
How not to become a Grumpy ‘Ol Lady

How not to become a Grumpy ‘Ol Lady

I am on a mission not to become a grumpy old lady. I have decided to make this my life’s work and it is not an easy assignment! I want my natural default pathway to be one of strength, calmness and peace, regardless of what is going on around me. OK you can stop...
The Universal Law of Hard Before Easy

The Universal Law of Hard Before Easy

It was an intense day filled with challenging stuff. I wasn’t looking forward to it, to say the least. I had every minute of my morning planned so I would arrive on time & bring my calm, kick-ass self! Then, then, then… I was required to clean up a small mess on...
4 things that stop us from living a vibrant life

4 things that stop us from living a vibrant life

Walking on our lake recently I went by a young woman doing some amazing figure skating. Alone on our beautiful lake, earbuds in, wearing regular clothes – pulling off these moves that very few people can do. She was out there doing what she loved simply for the...
Soul on calendar

Soul on calendar

Have you noticed yourself holding, holding, holding?  The holiday season can be filled with breath holding (until you feel you’ll explode?) or a lot of forceful exhalations (so you don’t actually explode?).  Here’s a super quick fix for the...